First, let me say that the best way to learn
about anal intercourse is to do it. Keep in mind that the ways of
sharing sex must be developed; they don't spring fully formed into
the mind. Yet the basic actions of intercourse are easy and simple,
as they are for every kind of sex. That is, all the necessary information
is already in you; you need only learn how to bring it out, to overcome
any confusions and develop rapport with your partner(s). It's the
prohibitions, the guilt and the complexities in our society and
each of us that prevent us knowing and doing what we want. Again,
it's a matter of good consciousness, feeling relaxed, and wanting
to explore, to get into it.
Anal intercourse involves
two people, who between them create the pleasures. At any one time,
one person will have his penis in the other's ass; this may be reversed
later on. One or both (or at certain times neither) persons will
be moving. In the anal intercourse I will discuss, both partners
want to engage in it, and they cooperate with each other. There's
no such thing as a "passive" and an "active"
role; there is no dominant and no submissive-these are false labels
put on us by hostile outsiders. Ass fucking is an act of creation
where two are together. There is a vast flexibility in who can do
what, but there is no "one up/one down" mentality unless
you want that.